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 The American Wedding
Author: Barry Ochsner
Website: http://www.fab-wedding-planning.com
Added: Wed, 11 Jan 2006 23:17:57 -0500
Category: Home & Family Matters
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The American Wedding
Provided by Wedding Planning Ideas
Living in the United States makes one feel liberated - free to do anything, liberated to live, liberated to love, liberated from traditions. While this is accurate, there are still many practices done during a marriage ceremony that renders this unforgettable event with a distinct American touch. Here are some:
Starting from the engagement, Americans can imagine exclusive ways to personalize their wedding. As there really isn't any engagement ritual, the more unique the marriage proposal is done, the better.
For most wedding planning, the engaged couple visits their parents to inform them of their recent engagement.
At times, the betrothed couple hosts an engagement celebration. The engagement celebration costs less than a wedding reception since most of the time; the menu will only include cocktails and hors d'oeuvres. Therefore, if the couple is on a tight budget, they can just invite more guests to the engagement celebration if they plan to limit the number of guests during the actual wedding ceremony.
Most wedding preparations have a bridal shower given by the maid of honor and the bridesmaids. The groom may also have a bachelor party the night before the wedding but he has to be careful not to drink too much.
Wedding invitations should include response cards to speedily inform the couple whether the person has accepted or declined the invitation. The wedding invitations should also be sent within four to six weeks before the event.
Usually, there is a rehearsal dinner in which the wedding party and guests came from far places to be present at the wedding attend. It was practiced that the groom's parents pay for this dinner.
A bridal luncheon may be hosted for the bride's attendants during the wedding day. However, time constraints may not permit this to be part of the schedule for the wedding day. Likewise, the groom may also host a groom's dinner for his groomsmen.
Interestingly, even if the couple is not very religious, they still prefer a religious ceremony. However, this may pose a problem since in America people of different faiths and religious backgrounds get married.
Even if there are few people who believe in bad luck, some couples still make sure that the groom does not see his bride until she starts waking on the aisle.
It is still practiced that the groom and his groomsmen enter the church through a side door. The bride will then walk down the aisle with her father. In some cases when both her father and stepfather brought up the bride, she may ask them both to escort her.
During a formal reception, there is typically a bridal table where the couple and the attendants sit. Also, food and drinks should be served as the guests appear at the reception.
Before, gift giving used to depend on what the guest will feel of use for the couple. Now, it is better to register for gifts so the guests will know what to bring that the couple will need.
Upon receiving an engagement or wedding gift, it is better to send a thank you note apart from saying "thank you" to the giver. This ought to be sent within two weeks upon receipt of the gift. Make a tailored thank you note, instead of using an impersonal nonspecific thank you note.
These are just a few American practices during weddings. Whether one chooses to this or prefers to have a very different wedding, what's more important is that American's still believe in the wedding vow, "For better or worse, 'til death do us part."
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